The best way to break free from the past and receive reconciliation in our lives with is by choosing to forgive. We have to let go, receive God's forgiveness then make the decision to give forgiveness. Unforgiveness is one of the main reasons people continue to remain bitter for years, unable to break free from dysfunctional family relationships. They're still waiting for something they may never receive from those family members. It is better to receive God's grace which He is willing and ready to give us than to keep waiting for someone to give us what may never come.
I hope this book inspires you to receive God's grace and forgiveness first for yourself and others. After you receive forgiveness, you can forgive others and break free from the past.