Threads of the Heart is not a book about finding love.
It is a book about understanding why certain patterns keep finding you.
Why calm feels empty.
Why intensity feels meaningful.
Why you stay even when you know.
And why leaving feels more frightening than pain.
This book explores romanticized pain - the belief that suffering means depth, that anxiety means connection, and that survival can be mistaken for love.
Without diagnoses or formulas, it uncovers how attachment, fear of loss, emotional withdrawal, and the nervous system quietly shape who you choose, what you tolerate, and how you lose yourself in the process.
This is not a gentle book.
It does not comfort your patterns.
It names them.
You won't stop falling in love.
But you will stop losing yourself.
