Real love starts with you. Stop settling-and start becoming the partner you've been looking for. Stop Swiping, Start Living

Finding lasting love in today's world can feel overwhelming-but it doesn't have to be. Whether you're re-entering the dating scene, navigating relationships after 40, or simply tired of confusing situationships and shallow connections, Stop Swiping, Start Living offers a compassionate, grounded path to finding love without losing yourself.

This empowering guide blends soulful wisdom with practical strategies to help you:

• Build self-worth and emotional resilience before dating
• Define what real compatibility looks like for you
• Navigate rejection, online dating, and first dates with grace
• Spot red flags-and recognize green ones
• Express yourself with confidence and authenticity
• Create a clear, intentional vision for the love you truly deserve

Packed with journaling prompts, affirmations, conversation starters, and gentle encouragement, this book meets you exactly where you are-and helps you grow from there. More than just dating advice, it's a self-discovery journey rooted in healing, clarity, and emotional safety.

Whether you're 25 or 55, single or starting over, Soulmate, But Make It Real reminds you of this truth: you are already whole. Real love begins with becoming yourself-and inviting someone who sees, honors, and grows with you.