Susan Shapiro Barash's provocative new book examines the most difficult challenges any woman faces when raising daughters. Sample chapters include: . What color would you like that Prada bag in? (material indulgence) . Do you need to be eating that? (fixations on food and weight) . Of course you can drink when you're home with me (loose boundaries and rules) . I know she's your friend but... (underestimating female friendships) . I'll just say you aren't feeling well (making excuses) . And much more.